LOVE

Love is a simple thing but yet it’s complicated. Yes indeed. In this chapter all I’m going to talk about all about love. Love can be harsh, sweet, sour, bitter, and even tasteless. I’ve been through 6 types of love. But end up with the bitterness of it. Yes love is actually equal to rejection. But even so every love gives you lesson that you can pick up to learn. So firstly I’ve been reading this one novel it’s about men and women. Well the novel is called ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ and I’ve been reading the novel halfway I’ve indeed learnt something from it. You know what love is about toleration towards each other. Indeed we think that when we are in love we feel like our relationship are everything and no one can break things apart from you. The question is does it? No. When we are in love we are living in this world of fantasy that makes us love drunk without we even knowing about it our self. Because we are too attached with the one love we often think the opinion of the society is always wrong. NO NO NO!

Some of the opinions are not wrong in fact it helps us build up the love in us even more. As you know love is not about relationship between women and men. We even have the love between our family members. We can feel the love deep in our heart. Some of them don’t show it in front of others some of them shower feeling of love directly towards everyone without even caring who or what. In this short essay I’m going to say everything about love based on my perspective and opinion about it. Love has taught me that it does end when the one you love stop loving you as much as you love them. No one can define love properly to be exact. We can be definite about the meaning of love. First thing first, I’m going to talk about the love for family. We do love our family members even though some of us don’t show it in a loving way but we still care about them. Like me I don’t really show my affection towards my siblings and even my parents. If I act affectionately towards them it will develop the feeling of awkwardness that I can’t really define because ever since young we are not the loving type. But then we show our love towards each other in a various way except for the loving way though. The love in family is more to the caring type instead of the love love type. You get me? Wait I don’t get myself either sometimes. As what the quotes say “Love begins at home, and it is not how much we do... but how much love we put in that action.” - Mother Teresa. This show that the amount of love that we received at home determines the amount of love we should get from someone outside from your family and the amount of love that you yourself going to give to someone that you feel special about them. Wait… Not only someone special, even your friends deserve the feeling of being love by us. Every human in this world actually needs love to be exact. I’ll get back the love for friends after this. Family love is actually the best give that God has sent us ever since that we’re born in this world. It’s actually the most special kind of love ever.

Okay enough about family love. Let’s talk the love for our friends. All of us are more to our friend instead of family right? Most of us shares everything with our friends even our dirtiest secret only our friends knew about it instead of our own family. Well friends are very special though. It’s hard for us to find a very good and trustworthy friend nowadays. I am blessed to have friends that are always with me through thick and thin of my life. Especially love live. My love live isn’t being really you know behaving in a good condition because I just got dumped directly without even finding and knowing the definite reason for getting dumped. I’ve been really down with my love life actually but then my friends are the ones who are making me to go on with my life and ignore the damn asshole. Our love for our friend indeed a very special one and even words couldn’t explain and even there is no term that can give a very definite reason for it. Real friends love us even though how bad we are how annoying we are they never give up on us and are still contacting with us even though you are at the other side of the country. You just don’t cut your relationship with your friends just like that. True friends don’t come and go that is why we must cherish them with all our heart even though sometimes they do really get into our nerves.

Done with friends. Let’s talk about love that we had experienced throughout our life ever since we were very young till now. Okay ever since I was kid I must admit that I do have these feelings of liking the opposite sex without knowing what will be the outcome of it. But I will start when I was 12. I like this one guy which was the friend of my brother. His name is Alan. He was indeed the first dude that I really deeply in like. But then when I was 12 I admit that I love him even though I don’t even know what the real meaning of love at that time is. I’ve love him for 1 year plus because during the time I’ve entered middle school, I’ve found out he likes one of my classmates which was a very pretty girl and at that time I know I can’t compete with her because of her perfect being. We called her beauty with brain until now because she’s basically the smartest girl with a beautiful face. During Valentine’s Day Alan gave Natalia a bouquet of roses with a box of chocolates right in front of my eyes. And that’s how rejected me. It was indirectly but then it was quite hurtful. Very hurtful I must say because I’ve never experienced a rejection before and it felt like someone just stabbed me really badly at the heart. I cried really hard that day because I don’t know who else to turn to that time. I was definitely a loner and a sucker for love even now. Next, I was still thirteen the time after Alan had rejected me I had a special feelings towards this senior of mine his name is Matty. He taught me stuffs for our school sport’s day and that was how I met him. I was head over heels towards him and yes I face another rejection from him because he likes someone else which was Alan’s ex-girlfriend. Imagine how I feel that time. It was really devastating where everything is connected towards one another. I could find a better way to calm myself other crying all the things all out since I’ve been rejected twice on the same year.

The third person I ever like is a senior of mine as well. I called him Mr. Apple Mapple because it’s actually his the first and the last alphabet of his name. So this person I’ve loved him for 2 years plus it starter when I was 14 and ended when I was 16. He’s a sweet kind he rejected me nicely and apparently I found out that he still likes my own cousin. Not to forget he even asked me whether a girl from his tuition centre is pretty or not. It was really hurtful considering my feelings towards him. It ended really smoothly with him though. I have three more stories to share about the boys that I ever loved but I’ve decided not to share it because it’s getting pretty boring. I’ve experienced a lot of heartbreaks to be exact that is why I’m slowing down on my movement on liking the wrong guy because I’m tired of being rejected. Really being rejected for 6 times is no fun I tell you no fun.

The moral of being in love or giving your love is we should really be caution towards everything around us especially friends and family. Yes you do have some special companion like your own boyfriend or girlfriend but they won’t stick around until you have an official ties with the person you love because that what makes the two of you family. And friend some of them come and go but cherish the one who never lets you down and always there when you need them without even complaining and giving you reasons that are not even reasonable. Cherish everyone who comes in your life because you will never know when is the time will you stop giving your love to someone whereby you meet The Great One at the other side of life.